Well. I figured out what the problem was. After about 6 hours and the removal of the whole left side interior of my car from the trunk, to the rear seat, the side panels, the front seat, the kick panel and the bottom half of my dash board.
I had replaced all the bulbs and was still getting that message so then i decide to just have a look at the wires. Thats when i noticed that two wires had been "rigged together to make but tail lights light up; when in fact only one of the wires had power coming to it. So with a tester and a wiring schematic I started to trace the wire back and found that somewhere underneath the carpet right about under the drivers seat there must have been a break in it. So what i did is a ran a wire fom just under the dashboard where the original wire still showed power to where the original wire came up and out of the carpet.
This solved the problem. It was a lot of work taking the interior apart but after replacing all the bulbs and still getting the message I was determined to get that stupid message off no matter what it took....even if it was 6 hours later..lol
one positive is I replaced all the little light bulbs that are usually burnt out like the ashtray lights and the light that lights up the headlight and fog light switch