Got the car towed to RMP finally. 160$ not bad.
although it would have been better if i realized my renewed CAA membership came in the mail when i got home.
Rocco did a really good job of getting the car in and servicing it right away!
Within an hour he had already found the problem which has been eating me away for 3 days!
He is a true professional, didnt waste anytime playing around, and got exactly to the issue.
It ended up being a water damaged DME that causing shorts through several major sensors needed for a smooth operation of the engine.
Thought i had a source for a new one tonight...but that was a dead end.(which is a story for another time)
So if anyone has a source on one, please contact me.