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Old 06-06-2006, 07:41 PM   #1
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Breakup



K guys need some advice gf and I broke up hurts like hell...and i don't want any dumb comments either...just need some support right now and i turn to max for help, and my fellow freinds.

thanks guys in advance
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Old 06-06-2006, 07:54 PM   #2
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There are still many girls out there dude.. I thought from the title you were talking about the movie "break up"
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Old 06-06-2006, 07:55 PM   #3
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What were the reasons for the breakup?
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Old 06-06-2006, 08:02 PM   #4
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yea why did you break up in first place?
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Old 06-06-2006, 08:05 PM   #5
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Breakups suck balls, doesn't matter how long the relationship was (although longer is usually harder to get over). My advice is, go hang out wit friends as much as possible. Try not to let yourself be alone for even a moment for the next few days so you don't dwell on it. Whatever you do, just accept that it's over and that no matter how much you want to believe, it's just not ever going work out again. Once you're satisfied that you're happy being single, start casually seeing some girls until you're fully moved on and can give your all in the next relationship. Sometimes this can take years but in the meantime have fun while you're single! It's not bad at all having free reign out there without any restrictions, trust me
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Old 06-06-2006, 08:17 PM   #6
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Don't dwell on it, just accept that it's done. Don't think about what if I done this differently or any nonsense like that. And most importantly... you need to get back into the game... Go out with your friends and have a good time. It really can be that simple, but it's up to you to make it that simple.


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Old 06-06-2006, 08:10 PM   #7
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I hear ya...
reason we broke up...probably my fault...but we hardly see eachother....so i get pissed....because if you really like someone...you'll go out of your way to see them. But like i said probably because i think this way is why i think i screwed things up.
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Old 06-06-2006, 08:14 PM   #8
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But like i said probably because i think this way is why i think i screwed things up.

Now see?? You should log off the internet right now and go out because you're already starting to dwell and even blame yourself. You'll feel better when you get back home later, you really will...
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Old 06-06-2006, 08:17 PM   #9
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I hear ya...
reason we broke up...probably my fault...but we hardly see eachother....so i get pissed....because if you really like someone...you'll go out of your way to see them. But like i said probably because i think this way is why i think i screwed things up.
nah man thats compltly the right way to think of it! Me and my girl broke up a year ago, we dated for a year, and we were best friends for a year. this girl was asian and her parents were extremly strict and was never allowed to leave the house. She gets a bunch of friends and ignors me *i did ****in everything for this girl.* and then she gets a bf and she goes compltly out of her way and shit for this guy who just sweet talks her n shit and she would sneak out and all that crap and it pist me off so much. So yea this girl pretty much used me till people came along for her....real ****in bitch right?
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Old 06-06-2006, 11:24 PM   #10
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I hear ya...
reason we broke up...probably my fault...but we hardly see eachother....so i get pissed....because if you really like someone...you'll go out of your way to see them. But like i said probably because i think this way is why i think i screwed things up.
wat i gather from this is that, basically you would bend over backwards for her, and she knew this and was taking advantage of that. am i right? if so, then lemme say that this girl does not deserve your attention or your affection, if she cant appreciate the little things you did for her. but you know its funny, in my 3 year relationship i've learned to realize that girls actually dont like when a guy gives them his full attention, its like they WANT to be deprived of attention, so then they think "does he still love me?" or "why is he ignoring me?" consequently, it makes the girl want to hold on dearer to you, and girls love drama in their lives for some reason

and i'm also gonna support the notion that yes, you can have the best time of your life while single. think about it: no restrictions, no feeling guilty about what your doing and with whom, no worrying about having to call the same person every day. so yeah, stay single, go out with the boys, live it up, until your ready to settle down again with someone new, and with NO lingering feelings or regrets whatsoever about your ex
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Old 06-06-2006, 11:33 PM   #11
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wat i gather from this is that, basically you would bend over backwards for her, and she knew this and was taking advantage of that. am i right? if so, then lemme say that this girl does not deserve your attention or your affection, if she cant appreciate the little things you did for her. but you know its funny, in my 3 year relationship i've learned to realize that girls actually dont like when a guy gives them his full attention, its like they WANT to be deprived of attention, so then they think "does he still love me?" or "why is he ignoring me?" consequently, it makes the girl want to hold on dearer to you, and girls love drama in their lives for some reason

and i'm also gonna support the notion that yes, you can have the best time of your life while single. think about it: no restrictions, no feeling guilty about what your doing and with whom, no worrying about having to call the same person every day. so yeah, stay single, go out with the boys, live it up, until your ready to settle down again with someone new, and with NO lingering feelings or regrets whatsoever about your ex
i agree ...things have to change and when she realizes it, if she loves u she will, then the turn around begins

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Old 06-06-2006, 11:47 PM   #12
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I hear ya...
reason we broke up...probably my fault...but we hardly see eachother....so i get pissed....because if you really like someone...you'll go out of your way to see them. But like i said probably because i think this way is why i think i screwed things up.



yep, i tried the same thing....she was in Oakville, i was in the Falls....didnt work....shitty deal man.
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Old 06-07-2006, 03:06 PM   #13
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yep, i tried the same thing....she was in Oakville, i was in the Falls....didnt work....shitty deal man.

That's only a ****ing 1 hour drive. I live in Vancouver, and my girl is in Toronto. It's hard but we're making it work. If you can't make the effort to drive the 1 hour to see the girl you 'love?' then you deserve to have your heart handed to you.

I wish my gf was only an hour away, i'd drive to see her every day.
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Old 06-07-2006, 03:12 PM   #14
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That's only a ****ing 1 hour drive. I live in Vancouver, and my girl is in Toronto. It's hard but we're making it work. If you can't make the effort to drive the 1 hour to see the girl you 'love?' then you deserve to have your heart handed to you.

I wish my gf was only an hour away, i'd drive to see her every day.
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Old 06-07-2006, 12:11 AM   #15
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my sister and i were talking about this today, and realized that honestly, everyone out there has had their heart broken...it's one of the worst things to have to go through, but in the end, you have to keep it together and get on with life...because if everyone out there gave in to feeling like shit, the world would stop...no one would have motivation to continue doing things they need to do.

also remember that there are many other people out there...and while this hurts now, in a few months you could be looking back and thinking, "why did i waste my time feeling bad over that" because you can have met someone who is worth having gone through this for.

and whenever you start feeling sad or missing her, or wanting to get back with her, remember this what you posted below, because it is ultimately the bottom line:

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if you really like someone...you'll go out of your way to see them.
if you find yourself going out of your way for someone, yet they don't even care to appreciate it, or make time for you, there isn't much there anyway. just a lot of one-sided feelings that will only leave you hurt. life's too short for this...there are many more people out there who will appreciate you. don't waste your time.
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