Originally Posted by R.S.C
Well, he posted on how best to deal with the break up, which has already happened, not on how to save a failing relationship.
A breakup does not mean the flame has been outed; it could just be wavering, but again burn bright. It's a good question to ask before providing advice, as it helps us understand what stage the rift is in, and emotionally what he is facing. It allows us to offer useful personable advice, instead of generic "you'll find better" comments.