i think your car looks awesome. you don't need to lower it anymore.
as for the fiberglass, i'm in the same boat. its alot cheaper, but i figure i owe it to my baby to put on a nice dress for her, so i decided to wait till next year and get the real mccoy. this way there's no regrets!
maybe head down to the next meet and talk to the guys who have them installed and have a look at their condition and see how often they paint it (if they do).
hmmm, with them nice shoes (your rims) she'll definitely love the nice dress (OEM bodykit).