Ok first off, new shocks/mounts/bumpers/gaskets in and the wierd unsettled suspension behavior is gone! Wuhoo, thanks guys.
Second, camber issue is still there. I looked at the subframe mounts as best i could and saw nothing out of the ordinary but I understand it is hard to tell. Maybe I should let Raven have a look, to bad they are so far away from here. :-( Any special tips on diagnosing that?