As for the fogging I don't have too much of a problem with it. Certainly if it starts I just turn on the AC and it's fine.
I find cleaning your windows regularly helps. I think RainX makes an anti fogging spray if it's still bad.
How much do you weigh? I'm 175 and I find the manual sport seats sift and comfy but too wide. I could use more bolstering.
Which seats do you have? Maybe the previous owner wore then out?