Are you sure its toast? IMO in all e46+ (since I have never driven older BMWs) engage higher than compared to any other brands. There is alot of deadspace between the hooking point and fully pressed in position. What I did was I figured it out that dead space and put in a clutch stop, removed the cdv and now engagement is much faster.
Its nothing like your Honda, which pretty much hooks up when you let off the pedal.
Hope you figure it out.
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