Looks good! Only thing I wouldn't have done is delete the door mouldings, it takes away from the lines of the e36 as it was designed.
I dream of a new paint job all the time...but it's more expensive than the car is worth
After people sitting on my hood at a party left a big scuff, I'm really depressed, but there were scratches, dents, and clear coat scuffs all over prior to that anyway.
You mentioned oiling the paint? What does that do?